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Art of Manliness: The Warrior’s Guide to True Manliness

  • Hayden Tompkins · 1 year ago
    Using death as your guide reminds me of the commencement speech that Steve Jobs gave -

    He said that when he wakes up in the morning he asks himself that if he were going to die that day, would he still do what he is about to do?

    If the answer is 'no' for too many days in a row, then something needs to change.
  • Seven Samurai · 1 year ago
    By and large, this is a crock. Most men in most places have been farmers, not warriors; warriors have in general been a parasitic class on the farmers. The choice of a (fake) Spartan for your image is a case in point -- the citizens of Sparta were all non-productive warriors; the productive work that fed them was done by helots (serfs). See this fascinating article.

    A real man fights when he has to --- against warrior parasites.
  • vanderleun · 1 year ago
    It is not just that this is a crock. The premise of the article is not. What's happening here is an article made with cookie cutters and a heaping serving of bromide, cliche, and blather.

    Get better writers that do more than fill out a check list of self-help and lard the prose with "You's"
  • Bronson · 1 year ago
    I'd take issue with the point about fighting as well. Fighting every single moment of your life like a maniac is a sure way to wear yourself out and end up frustrated and bitter. The best fighter knows when it is time to dig deep, and when it's time to avoid an empty or Pyrrhic victory.
  • Chris · 1 year ago
    Yeah i don't think this article really has the same idea of manliness in mind as the rest of this website. This article seems to believe in a more stereotypical brute man as the epitome of manliness while the rest of the website is based more around the virtuous, sharp dressed gentleman.
  • Bob G. · 1 year ago
    I disagree with equating virtuous manliness and cultivating a warrior "instinct." Since the writers mention Theodore Roosevelt, here is a quote: "War is a dreadful thing... Every honorable effort should always be made to avoid war, just as every honorable effort should always be made by the individual in private life to keep out of a brawl, to keep out of trouble; but no self-respecting individual, no self-respecting nation, can or ought to submit to wrong." That is, avoid a fight, but in the face of injustice, fight to win.
  • wayne · 1 year ago
    As a Cherokee decendant, I take mild offense to the notion that warriors are parasites. A true warrior stands up for, not to. They protect. Otherwise they are just a bully, or worse. Perhaps that is what the Spartans were, IDK. And he didn't say fight every minute of your life, he said every battle. He said this to help you guarantee victory. If it's a battle that you don't 'have' to win, then maybe it's more of a diversion than an actual battle. I grew up in the projects, and I won many battles by running faster than the 5 guys chasing me. It was like my life depended on it, but not theirs.
  • Brett · 1 year ago
    I'm thinking a lot of you are missing the point of their post. The article doesn't mention once about physically fighting or engaging in violence. It's about taking an attitude of a warrior (courageous, vigorous, ect.) and applying it to your life. It's about not taking on a victim mentality, but rather taking full responsibility of your life.
  • Kate · 1 year ago
    As Brett said, this post is not about literally being a warrior and spoiling for a literal fight-it is about having a warrior MINDSET. That is it say, to become men who are brave, persevering, tenacious, and tough as nails.

    The brothers who wrote this post both live with cystic fibrosis. Yet they have decided that instead of wallowing in their disease and its possible limitations, they are going to attack life straight on like warriors.

    @Seven Samurai-Actually throughout history battles were fought largely by citizen-soldiers. They were farmers AND warriors. Which is why wars were often conducted during the off seasons for planting and harvesting. Yes, Sparta was an exception as you pointed out. But everyone would do well to stand their ground in life the way the Spartans stood in that pass at Thermopylae. There was nothing parasitic about it. It was selfless duty.

    Also, as Wayne points out, warriors were highly honored in ancient societies. Not because they went out looking for a fight, but because they were protectors. Yes, some societies had slaves, but many worked the land themselves and it was the warriors who protected the fruits of that labor. They were indispensable.
  • Cameron Schaefer · 1 year ago
    I think one of the best description's of the warrior ethos is found in Black Hawk Down when "Hoot" (Eric Bana) describes why he does it:

    "When I go home people'll ask me, 'Hey Hoot, why do you do it man? What, you some kinda warv junkie?' You know what I'll say? I won't say a damn word. Why? They won't understand. They won't understand why we do it. They won't understand that it's about the men next to you, and that's it. That's all it is."

    Being a warrior isn't about a thirst for blood or a desire to kill, its about the guys next to you and the fact that you're willing to give your life for them and know they're willing to do the same for you.

    I think a lot of you are missing the point of this whole post. Keep it coming Brett!

    -Cameron
  • Aidan Rogers · 1 year ago
    Hey

    Trying to download your free e book but keep getting a 404 error. Tried to let you know via your contact form but that appears to be broken also?

    Help!
  • D.G. · 1 year ago
    I cant download the e-book either, the link is broken 404'd.

    Also, the contact page just goes blank when i submit
  • Spencer Burton · 1 year ago
    Greetings everyone. Im Spencer, one of the authors of this article, and co-author of livingindubiously.com.

    Let me clarify and say that this post is not about spartans, or fighting, or a warrior history lesson. Its about realizing your true potential as a human, and facing every "battle" (a metaphor for events in your life) as your life depended on it. It is very much an inherent part of manhood to be responsible, to persevere with confidence, and to consciously attain the conditions you desire in your life with unwavering intention.

    We aimed to illustrate that men are only as good as they believe themselves to be, in every aspect of their lives. That through a quiet confidence in ones abilities, and through a humbled gratitude and respect for the mortality of one's life, he can build a "warriors mentality" ( a attitude of supreme self confidence, NOT an angry spartan).
  • vanderleun · 1 year ago
    Well, Spencer, that just confirms my earlier sense that the whole thing is sloshed with lame.

    I think you'd better check your six on being a stand-up guy. This is just fluff. The same old "realize your potential" mantra with a little salt on the side. Not impressed.
  • Nicole · 1 year ago
    Well, Vanderleun, that just confirms my earlier sense that you're a complete d-bag who goes around trying to pee on people's dreams who are out there writing interesting, inspirational articles in order to feel better about yourself.

    I would have felt differently if I went to your website and read anything insightful or original, but it was a bunch of very poorly written political BS.
  • hank chinaski · 1 year ago
    Stolen!!!!

    All of this is plagiarized from Carlos Casteneda's book "Journey To Ixtlan."

    Read it. It's a good book.

    And it's not stolen.
  • Kurt Russell · 1 year ago
    Yeah vanderleun, it's totally lame to realize your potential and treat life as if it actually means something to you, bitching about motivation and being a douche on the internet is much more important, right?
  • Zooey Glass · 1 year ago
    i second "hank chinaski".

    digg bait alert.

    give credit where it's due, ya lit thieves.
  • Dan · 1 year ago
    I really liked the article

    http://www.cruelbreed.com/forums
  • Evan · 1 year ago
    I would like for you to find one sentence that is plagiarized in this article.

    This is a completely original article written by me and my brother.

    And the Carlos Castaneda book that talks about the way of the warrior is not Journey to Ixtlan, its Teachings of Don Juan: A Yaqui Way of Knowledge. Good try though.

    -Evan from www.livingindubiously.com
  • Shopping Cart Software · 1 year ago
    Nice blog :) and that picture is hilarious <3 the movie 300 lol.
  • Will · 1 year ago
    I hear the part about spurring yourself on to the things you wished you'd do by facing the impermanence and fragility of life.

    Although, I heartily agree with the comments that you Have to pick your battles. If you fight every single thing like it's your last day, you end up frothing at the mouth.

    A good dose of Sun Tzu (yes, I have actually read the book) would help balance this post a bit more.
  • Chuck · 1 year ago
    I take issue with this article on two levels.

    First is the point they make about fighting every battle as if it is your last. While this is true it doesn't mention anything about the choice of battles one should make. Choosing to squabble over something meaningless is not the warrior attitude. After a true life or death experience one learns to let the little things slide. Everyone has experienced the jerk in the restaurant who has unreal or ridiculous expectations that can't be met. DON'T BE THAT GUY. You will only look like an ass, not a warrior.

    The second problem that I have with this article is that it focuses on a sort of "live for the moment" attitude, particularly when dealing with death. This is not the warrior mindset at all. The writer contradicts himself when mentioning that a warrior has complete control over his body, but then telling everyone to live this day as it were your last. I don't know about you but if this were my last day on earth, gaining mastery of my body would seem redundant. A warrior is always planing ahead for what the enemy is going to throw at him next, including death.
    Some of the greatest warriors of all time have also been some of the most religious or spiritual. They have fully prepared their spirit for the after life.

    A warrior is made up of three parts, the physical, mental and spiritual. This article only addresses 2 of those three but seems to leave out the spiritual aspect. When you actually face death, the afterlife becomes much more important.

    The defining characteristic of a warrior is his willingness to close with the enemy.
  • Dan · 1 year ago
    Sounds like every Israeli I ever met.
  • EnchantedApril · 1 year ago
    Hence SPORTS. In my mind, Hockey is one of the last bastions of where it is still societally acceptable for me to express testosterone aggression and pummel each other in a MANLY fashion. The position of where there is a player who is The Enforcer I totally respect. Then again, after being basically a good provider, I look for men who are SUPERB PROTECTORS. My late husband taught me to shoot. Do you know how, too? Mazel tov!
  • Loki's Playground · 1 year ago
    Well so many responders have proved their lack of worth and understanding. What are you looking for? Spoon feeding? Silver platter?

    Look at what is being said beyond the black words.

    Fools...

    To those who saw past the black words... much of what was said by you needs no further clarification. The authors have doen a great job.

    But I challenge you to look at one thing. Rather than the concept of a fear of death. Awareness of it and understanding of it. It is not a fear of it but an acceptance of it.
  • Brett McKay · 1 year ago
    @Justus-

    I don't remember deleting your comment...are you sure it went through? The last comment I got from you was on the Wartime Sacrifice post.
  • Jared · 11 months ago
    Kudos to the author. I've been rereading this article to get inspired over the last few days. It has become my "manvotional." I'm making some very big and tough decisions, and this is helping me in that a lot.

    I sincerely disagree with all dissenters and found their logic to be poor and/or greatly flawed.
  • S.Smith · 10 months ago
    I like Castaneda too. 3 Rules bind the universe.